Say this to yourself: “I’m not for everyone”
And that’s OK!
Not everyone likes us or loves us, agree with us, see eye to eye with us, is comfortable with us, and/or get us… and that’s ok. No matter how good you are, kind, great, fantastic, wonderful, funny, delicious you are…
That’s because you are NOT FOR EVERYONE.
Tujuan posting ini apa sih?
Mengingatkan kita semua kalau kita ini bukan untuk setiap orang. Pasti ada yang suka sama kita, ngerasa cocok sama kita, nyaman sama kita. Tapi pastinya ada yang merasa ga cocok sama kita, bahkan sebel dan ga suka sama kita juga toh?! Hey there haters, you know who you are! Yang masih suka ngintip-ngintip IG padahal sebel…
Dan ini bukan hanya dalam kehidupan pribadi, pertemanan, keluarga, dll. Ini juga bisa terjadi dalam pekerjaan/profesi kita. Contohnya coaching style saya itu pasti ada yang bisa menerima dengan baik, tetapi pasti ada yang merasa tidak cocok. And I’m completely ok with that. Why? Karena balik ke point diatas. I know my coaching style isn’t for everyone either.
That’s why I always do an initial consult where I get to know you and can determine whether I can support you or not (and vice versa, you also decide if I’m for you or not). I don’t just blindly take on a client.
So word of advice...
Stop trying to make everyone happy (it’s not your job, it’s theirs!). Stop trying to please everyone. Don’t spend too much time thinking about what others think of you. Don’t be discourage by rejection (note to self, projector!), it’s just universe’s way of telling you “hey, that’s not for you, honey child!” (say it with an attitude). Be grateful for that sign from universe. You will attract your own crowd, tribe and vibe!
Just remember, you are not for everyone!
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